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<  Echatio  ~  On the subject of PORN

Have you ever been the victim of a Porn Thief?

Yes  
42%
  [ 3 ]  42%
 
No  
57%
  [ 4 ]  57%
 

Total Votes : 7
Ms. Mingo-go
Posted: Thu May 17, 2007 3:29 pm Reply with quote
Satan's Little Helper Joined: 12 Dec 2006 Posts: 884 Location: Hell
But were they not girlfriend material because you realised they had sex with animals? Or was there some other defining moment that caused you to come to that conclusion.

Actually, I don't think I would ever find someone sexually attractive if they were shagging animals...I think that would be a real erection killer. If you didn't know they shagged animals, would you desire them?

I often said if my cat (RIP) had been 6 foot tall, I would have had the sex with him. He was up for it. Even with the snip. That guy loved me.

It is true though. I am NOT girlfriend material. however, I don't think I'm particularly attractive these days either. And I think I'd rather drink vomit than stick an eel up my fanny.

BLLLARJGHGHGHGHG!!!

I've seen the Linda Lovelace dog blowjob stills....I didn't realise what it was when I opened the jpg. I probably would have opened it if I knew though. Curiosity and all that. (although that isn't what killed my cat...)

Beastiality? Keep it in the barn. That's what I say....

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ms cara
Posted: Thu May 17, 2007 6:25 pm Reply with quote
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frankly, i dont know what the world is coming to.... Rolling Eyes

i see nothing wrong with watching people shagging, it can be very hot if it is filmed right. but what is it in the male psyche that needs to see women degraded, violated and dehumanised? is it a control thing?

i wish to stress that i see nothing wrong with porn when it treats sex as an act of pleasure between two consenting adults. but i have seen shit that makes me really wonder about male sexuality.

if someone could explain this stuff to me honestly i would appreciate it. i love
boys but do fear that over exposure to porn affects their ability to have normal realationships with women. this is a pet subject of mine so i would welcome any sensible debate.

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aquiline
Posted: Thu May 17, 2007 6:29 pm Reply with quote
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i didn't really want to get involved in this thread but after reading your comment cara i want to add i agree totally with what you've just said.
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ms cara
Posted: Thu May 17, 2007 6:37 pm Reply with quote
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i appreciate that.
usually when i talk to boys about this, they just dont get it. they think im a raving feminist (which is true).

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Ms. Mingo-go
Posted: Thu May 17, 2007 8:11 pm Reply with quote
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yeah, men seem to have a real weird fascination with seeing the most bizarre sex acts...I don't know if this is a turn on or curosity or what...but I really think I would be ill seeing someone fuck a chicken, not sexy....

I've had men send me pictures of women with two fists in their arse and stuff...and I just wince. I mean, christ, I like porn, but come on. That's just fucking sick. Sure I sang a song about fisting, but it was a joke, really.

Mind you, I've just had the stalker say that since I watch porn and want to piss on someone, then I should have sex with him, a total stranger because he needs to have sex with a girl and deserves to.

This is why I've phoned the police. Having idiots like this on yr door is not a nice feeling. For the record, I do recall that the stalker wasn't interested in watching the porn. So to be a psycho sicko, you don't need to like porn.

Trust me.

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Mozza
Posted: Fri May 18, 2007 12:33 pm Reply with quote
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ms cara wrote:
frankly, i dont know what the world is coming to.... Rolling Eyes

i see nothing wrong with watching people shagging, it can be very hot if it is filmed right. but what is it in the male psyche that needs to see women degraded, violated and dehumanised? is it a control thing?

i wish to stress that i see nothing wrong with porn when it treats sex as an act of pleasure between two consenting adults. but i have seen shit that makes me really wonder about male sexuality.

if someone could explain this stuff to me honestly i would appreciate it. i love
boys but do fear that over exposure to porn affects their ability to have normal realationships with women. this is a pet subject of mine so i would welcome any sensible debate.


right on. there is a whole generation of young males running about assuming that their first sexual relationships with women will be just like 'in e porn' they used to watch round their mates. obviously some people are more sensitive than others but i agree with cara that porn creates unhelpful and unrealistic sexual objects of women

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graham le canadien
Posted: Fri May 18, 2007 12:54 pm Reply with quote
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yeah. i just don't really get the whole volient sodomy and cuming on girls faces thing. i dont' find either activity arousing, to be honest.

i have a cousin who was going on about thi the other day, asking me if i've done those exact things, i asked him where he got the idea that's how sex is, adn he said: porn.

it's not clever, eh?

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3underscore
Posted: Fri May 18, 2007 3:11 pm Reply with quote
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Mozza wrote:

right on. there is a whole generation of young males running about assuming that their first sexual relationships with women will be just like 'in e porn' they used to watch round their mates. obviously some people are more sensitive than others but i agree with cara that porn creates unhelpful and unrealistic sexual objects of women


Is gay porn a good representation of how things are, then?
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Mozza
Posted: Fri May 18, 2007 3:26 pm Reply with quote
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3underscore wrote:
Mozza wrote:

right on. there is a whole generation of young males running about assuming that their first sexual relationships with women will be just like 'in e porn' they used to watch round their mates. obviously some people are more sensitive than others but i agree with cara that porn creates unhelpful and unrealistic sexual objects of women


Is gay porn a good representation of how things are, then?


I dont really understand the point you are trying to make here?

And why have you even mentioned gay porn?

I was making a point about women being made sexual objects, via pornography, but you could also list all forms of media in that respect. are you saying gay men are made sexual objects in the same way? its not really a valid comparison, given the whole patriarchal nature of society....?

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ms cara
Posted: Sat May 19, 2007 1:04 am Reply with quote
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i have not seen much gay porn but i would have thought that it would be on a much more equal footing (?fisting). i an heartened by the comments left here by the young men who peruse this chatboard. however, i fear this may not be representative of males in general. but still, its nice to know....

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Starks
Posted: Sat May 19, 2007 1:08 pm Reply with quote
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hello...i am a pervert....

.i mean, the nice sex between two ppl the really like each other...it's a beautiful thing..

gets a bit boring after a while....so it's good to get nasty every now and then..

and in my experiance(admittedly not all that great)....it's the girls that, like to get freaky..

i'm quite shy, so maybe it's just me....but more often than not...i BLUSH at what some girls say and do in & out of the bedroom...

.(i mean grabbing your cock & sticking it any old place, without so much as a plz or thanks Wink )

In so far as the whole....degrading, nature of some porn...i guess thats the whole 'uugga-bugga' caveman mentality goin on..

the bitch just got 'pwnd'.... Very Happy ..

porn has been around for along time......and i guess ppl are only goin to think of more fetishes & freaky ways to fuck...

with the net, hardcore fetish porn is easily available.....& it not like the tame Escort mag my dad had hidden in the loft..
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stanley_kubrick
Posted: Sat May 19, 2007 2:31 pm Reply with quote
Joined: 13 Dec 2006 Posts: 650 Location: The Belgian Congo
This topic is becoming a bra burning love-in.

Does porn make women sex objects?- Yes, but only during the duration of the film. But thats the nature of porn. People arn't watching it for the plot. As long as theres consent I dont see the big deal.

Its escapism, its fantasy. Its not a flamin documentary on human relationships.

Does porn influence the way people behave towards each other? - No probably not, unless you're a fucking nutter.

If someone does not have the capacity to separate what they watch on TV from real life then they are probably damaged to begin with.
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ms cara
Posted: Sat May 19, 2007 7:13 pm Reply with quote
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fetishes, as i have said, i have no problem with.
anything truely consentual i have no problem with.
but no choice is made in a vaccuum.
and to suggest that what people watch has no influence on how they behave is simplistic in the extreme. i do feel that the easy availability of porn, and nasty stuff especially is damaging to both sexes.
and if normal sex is boring for you, then honey, you ain't doing it right.[/i]

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graham le canadien
Posted: Sat May 19, 2007 7:51 pm Reply with quote
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ms cara wrote:
and if normal sex is boring for you, then honey, you ain't doing it right.[/i]



look like someone else just got pwned!

Laughing

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Danny
Posted: Sat May 19, 2007 11:18 pm Reply with quote
Joined: 16 Feb 2007 Posts: 117 Location: Edinburgh (most of the time)
My first experinece of watching hard core porn was after my uncle died and we had to empty out his flat. My uncle was a bit of a 'character' as you would say! He was registered blind but had more books and vinyl than HMV. He used to trawl every charity shop in Edinburgh (before they were de rigeur) and basically take what he wanted.

As a 8/9 year old boy visting my uncle was out of sight. He used to let us watch 'that bit in Alien' and play with all the old war memorabilia that he had.

In about 1995 (when Gazza played for the gers) his life was cut short and we had to get rid of all the stuff in his flat. He had the biggest vinyl collection you could imagine but as a 13 year old boy my interest was draw to those magazines and VHS tapes which were so neatly stacked in his bedroom wardrobe. Anyways, for one one hazy summer me, my friends, their friends (and the rest) watched these films over and over and over again. ....

..... and to be honest ..... I never felt to at easy about watching that sh^t then and I still dont think it is up to much. But to cut along story short I agree with Stanley K!
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