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PITTSFORD, N.Y. -- Before we can begin, Rex and Rob Ryan must finish their nature walk. It involves five middle-aged men, all Buffalo Bills staffers, and lasts about half an hour. Rex organized the daily jaunt because he says he has gained 30 pounds since his brother joined the coaching staff this past winter. The walk twists around the picturesque campus of St. John Fisher College, home of the Bills training camp, and ends on a long flight of concrete steps.Good god, its a sight to behold -- Robs long gray mane bouncing in the wind, Rex trash-talking the whole group. In a way, its depressing because, in the old days when the twin brothers were together, they sprinted, drank copious amounts of beer and raised hell.Now, their precious leisure time is relegated to what they call the Huck Finn walk. When they clear those last steps, creaky bones be damned, they throw their arms in the air, Rocky style.Im down a pound! someone in the group exclaims after a weigh-in.Im up 13! says Bills staffer Ernie Gutierrez, who, according to Rex, really enjoys camp food.Rob Ryan, at least initially, was not as passionate about this whole health kick. Back in December, a month before he was hired, Rob visited Buffalo with one of the Ryans childhood friends, Chuck Abate. Rex is really into salads, and he insisted that they join him for his daily lettuce lunches. Rob and Chuck reluctantly agreed, but then sneaked over to the team cafeteria and scarfed down a premeal meal before they met Rex.You guys, Rex told them midsalad, are doing so good.The Ryan boys are back together for the first time since Arizona more than two decades ago, and its going to be entertaining. They coach hard, cackle long and then retreat to Rexs office late at night and watch Naked and Afraid. Their defensive meetings are already getting rave reviews. In most NFL training camps, these meetings, wedged between hot workouts, should be sponsored by Ambien. But not Rex and Robs. Rex goes to the front first, talks a bit, then motions for a relief pitcher. The song Wild Thing cranks, and Rob struts to the dais, in sort of a WWE walkup, and high-fives players along the way. Nobody sleeps.They dont talk about it or act like it, but this is the most important football season in the history of the Ryan family. Rob could be found sleeping in his office this spring -- months before the first game -- because he has to get everything right. They have to get it right. Rob is coming off a forgettable year in New Orleans in which the defense put up historically bad numbers, and he was fired; Rex came to Buffalo in 2015 promising the playoffs, only to see his team regress and go 8-8.The Bills have not seen the postseason in 16 years, and the pressure is mounting. In June, Hall of Famer Jim Kelly told The Jim Rome Show that if Rexs team didnt make the postseason this year, he probably would be fired.So when a city doubts you and livelihoods are on the line, its only natural to turn to the person you trust the most, the one who has been part of you for 53 years. Rob watched his brothers team for a week last winter and was struck by the way the Bills, after months of discord, were coming together. He wanted to be part of it.But something bigger was at play, too. The twins got into coaching because of their father, Buddy, and he was struggling. You name it, and Buddy had it -- congestive heart failure, cancer, Parkinsons disease and numerous strokes. They knew that he wasnt going to be around much longer, and that their success together would give him great joy.The legendary defensive coach rallied many times, to the point where his doctor stopped saying Call the boys every time things looked bad. He had one big reason to live. He wanted to be in Buffalo on Sept. 15, the Bills home opener against the Jets.My boys are together, hed tell anyone whod listen. My boys are going to kick ass.But then Buddy died on June 28, and now everything seems different. If its August, it usually means a Ryan is boasting about his teams Super Bowl aspirations. Buddy did it for years, and so have his sons. But now there are no predictions, just one inevitability.We had the courage to coach together knowing if it doesnt succeed, whos the blame going to? Rex says. The blame is going to be saddled onto two people for an entire organization.Thats fine, Rob says. They know when theyre together, they rarely lose a fight.FROM THE VERY beginning, Buddy Ryan told his children to never, ever, get into coaching. For one, there was no money in it back in his day. Buddys first NFL job was as a defensive line coach for the New York Jets, a gig that won him a Super Bowl ring but could barely afford him a room at the YMCA. Imagine this, Buddy Ryan, a hard, calculating man once accused of putting bounties on opponents, sleeping in a one-bed room at the Y, his three visiting sons cuddled next to him. Thats how glamorous it was to be a coach.But after Buddy told his kids not to do it, only one of them listened. The oldest.Its late July, a few weeks after Buddys death, and Jim Ryan is sipping cabernet at a cocktail lounge on the outskirts of St. Louis, anonymous in a happy hour sea of suits. Jim is a lawyer, and hes in the middle of a murder trial. He has the most normal job in the family.Six years separate Jim from Rex and Rob, so Jim was old enough to know what football did to his parents marriage.Here was my childhood, Jim says. I was born in Oklahoma; my dad wasnt around because he was busy. Kindergarten through second grade, I was in Buffalo, New York, third grade in Nashville, fourth and fifth in Ardmore, Oklahoma, and sixth grade in Toronto. Between marriages falling apart and moving with the jobs, its a tough living.Buddy and Doris Ryan were college sweethearts, two strong-willed Oklahomans who grew apart and got divorced after 11 years. Doris couldnt be one of those wives stuck at home waiting a season to see her husband. She took the three kids to Toronto and became Canadas first female education administrator.Jim knows hes more like his mom. He reads books and prefers hockey to football. He does not have the capacity to be as blunt as Buddy.True story: Jim walked on to play hockey at the University of Minnesota and for a short time played under Herb Brooks. One day, Brooks cut him. Now, hockey parents are known for being occasionally biased and intrusive, and Buddy had a long track record of standing up for his boys. But when Jim told his dad he had been cut, Buddy simply said, That just goes to show that he knows talent.But thats the reality of being a Ryan. Youre born with extra-thick skin. By the time Rex and Rob were in second grade, they knew they wanted to be coaches, just like their dad. Around that same time, Jim also knew theyd be trouble.School was always secondary to them. Jim estimates that they have read one nonsports book combined. If one twin had a test and didnt know the subject, the other would take it and the teacher would never catch on.They were just a handful, Jim says. And they always had each other. When youre a little kid, you kind of feel alone. Its natural. They never had that feeling. And God [help] the kid that crossed them.Because of fights, and a few general mishaps, Rob was constantly suffering broken bones. One time, when he broke his arm, Rex and Jim shoved cheese and bologna down his cast. They wondered how it would smell after a few weeks.I remember my grandma, I think, took him to take the cast off, Jim says. The doctor about passed out, and the nurse had to leave because she was gonna puke.Fights were often lopsided because if you picked on one Ryan brother, the other came out swinging, too. When the twins were in their early teens, Doris, tired of juggling work and two rowdy sons who were constantly getting into fights, decided to let them live with their father. Buddy was an assistant with the Minnesota Vikings at the time, coaching the Purple People Eaters defense in 1976 and 77, and lived in the Minneapolis suburb of Edina. The twins thought Edina was too snobby.But in the NFL, the only guarantee is change, and in 1978, the Chicago Bears hired Buddy to be their defensive coordinator. Rex and Rob arrived in Chicago after the high school baseball season had started, so the team at Stevenson High was already set. But then Buddy walked in and handed the baseball coach a business card with a Bears helmet on it, and soon the twins were on the team.Chuck Abate, who played second base, was irritated when the Ryans showed up. He thought they were getting preferential treatment because their dad was a coach.I wanted to hate those guys so much, Abate says. I hated them for about one day, but ended up loving them for the rest of my life. I think I was jealous of them. They were so tight. They didnt care. They had each other.The brothers, born five minutes apart, were so tight they shared a car and a wallet. Since Rex was born first and was technically older, he always drove the red Ford Escort.When they were around 16, they were ball boys for the Bears. One day, the twins asked Bears defensive tackle Dan Hampton, a future Hall of Famer, whether hed buy them a six-pack of beer.What the hells wrong with you? Hampton said.Buddy helped nudge them toward college, and they played a little football and wreaked a lot of havoc at Southwestern Oklahoma State. But that was where Buddys involvement ended. He did not want to be the guy who handed his boys jobs on silver platters. He knew if things went bad, it meant all of them would be gone. One bullet gets both of you, is something he liked to say about nepotism.So Rex went to Eastern Kentucky to be a grad assistant, Rob went to Western Kentucky to be a G.A., and, in one of the rare times of their young lives, the twins were apart.EVERYBODY KNOWS what happened to Rex. He became head coach of the New York Jets in 2009, led them to two straight AFC Championship Games, and dazzled the NFL with his wit and brash talk. When Rex said he wouldnt kiss Bill Belichicks rings, it brought back memories of Buddy. Rex has been in the spotlight ever since.But a monumental thing happened before all of that, and its something that changed Rexs and Robs lives. In 1994, the year after their dad punched fellow Oilers assistant Kevin Gilbride on the sidelines, the Arizona Cardinals made Buddy Ryan their head coach in what would be his last NFL job.Buddys sons were toiling away at the small-college level at the time and could not get a sniff from anyone bigger. The Division I-A coaches tended to look down on the guys in the lower levels, Rex says, and then there was that matter of the punch.When Buddy clocked Gilbride -- in a Sunday Night Football game, no less -- Rex and Rob were frantically calling each other. Rex says they cried: Were never, ever going to get a coaching job!There are varying accounts of why Buddy decided to go to Arizona. Some people insist that he took the job because he knew it might be the only way his boys would have a chance to get into the NFL. Jim, who was Buddys agent at the time, says that his dad was actually against hiring them and that, even when Jim got him to reconsider, Buddy was going to take only one of them.When told of Jims account, that only one of them was supposed to be hired, Rob laughs.Which one? he says.It almost hurt being Buddy Ryans son, Rex says. You would think that it would help, but it really didnt. If Dad wasnt going to hire us, who would?He took both of them. Rex coached the defensive line and linebackers, and Rob ran the secondary. In Robs first day on the job, Jim says, Rob had to cut Dave Duerson, a safety whom Buddy had coached in Chicago.Duerson was getting older and wanted to play another year, but Buddy told Rob that if Duerson couldnt run a 4.6, they couldnt keep him. Duerson couldnt run a 4.6.Though Rob was only 31, he immediately won over the players. Cornerback Aeneas Williams didnt want to play for Buddy in 1994 because Williams was sure he couldnt stand up to the demands of Buddys system, which would require him to be on an island.One of the first people Williams saw was Rob, who put his arms around him. Aeneas, Rob told him, you can lead this league in interceptions, you can be an All-Pro corner, and you can make the Pro Bowl.Williams was inspired. He tied for most interceptions in the NFL in 1994 and went on to the Pro Football Hall of Fame.The Cardinals finished 8-8, their first .500 campaign since moving to Phoenix in 1988, and took their playoff hopes all the way to the final game of the year. But they went 4-12 in 95, and Buddy, who was notorious for clashing with ownership, was fired.And that was it for Buddy. He was content to go home to his farm in Kentucky and wear two hats on weekends, one for Rexs team and one for Robs.Rob went back to college coaching; he was the defensive coordinator at Oklahoma State when Belichick hired him in 2000 to be the Patriots linebackers coach. They won two Super Bowls together. In the past decade, Rob has been the defensive coordinator for four NFL teams -- Oakland, Cleveland, Dallas and New Orleans -- but has yet to be a head coach.His supporters arent exactly sure why. If Rob had been from another era, one that was less image conscious, maybe he wouldve had a better shot. Maybe if hed cut his hair, or held his tongue once in a while, hed be where Rex is now.But that wasnt Robs way. He is more like Buddy. He has no filter. Rex, for all of his bravado, is still polished. He knows when to dial it down.The Bills announced Robs hiring on Jan. 10, and he went dark for months. But in May, he did an interview with The MMQB and let loose. He told the website that the Saints struggled in his final two seasons because he was forced to change their scheme against his wishes. He said they switched to a bulls--- defense to try to copy the Seattle Seahawks. (New Orleans coach Sean Payton later disputed Robs claim that his stamp wasnt on the defense.)The Saints were fourth best in yards allowed in Robs first season in 2013, but were abysmal in his the final two years.I think we wouldve been better [in Oakland] if Al Davis wasnt micromanaging everything, former defensive back Chris?Carr says.Same thing in New Orleans [with] Sean Payton, says Carr, who played under Ryan for both teams. If hes in a situation where he has a head coach like his brother that knows him and is going to believe in him and let him do his thing, I think hes going to perform well.The Ryans are vague when asked what type of defense the Bills will run this season, saying only that it will be multiple. When its run right, Rex says, its organized chaos. They know what theyre doing, but theyre putting a doubt in the offenses mind.One of Rexs only gripes about camp with his brother is that he cant go out because everyone recognizes Rob with his hair. Some nights, Rob pops into Rexs office, and theyll watch Naked and Afraid or Deadliest Catch. The latter features a family of fishermen who run a ship on the Bering Sea.Hopefully one day Edgars running his boat, Rex says, and Robs running his ship.BUDDYS FUNERAL was a never-ending loop of long-ago stories. The old man could rub people the wrong way, but there was another side of him that commanded unwavering loyalty and love. When Buddy was fired as coach of the Philadelphia Eagles in 1990, his biggest concern was for the cats that lived under the steps at Veterans Stadium. Whod feed them now?He actually took one of those crazy-ass cats, Rex says. Dad, he just loved those cats.Hampton and Gary Fencik flew out from Chicago to take Buddy to lunch in May. Ronnie Jones, an old assistant, would phone Buddy every week. Hed end the calls by telling the old man he loved him, and for years it was followed by a mumble. But as he got older, and sicker, Buddy never hung up without an I love you, too.At the funeral, Barbara Neal passed out deviled eggs to Buddys old players. Barbara and her husband, Dan, a former Ryan assistant, helped keep watch over Buddy in his final days. Though the radiation from his cancer damaged his teeth, Buddy still managed to eat those deviled eggs. Barbara wonders whether he swallowed them whole.Rex and Rob surveyed the crowd at their dads service, wondering whether theyd ever come close to making that kind of an impact. Dan Hampton found the kids who used to beg for beer and told them Buddy would be getting up early on Sundays to watch his boys from heaven.They cling to those moments, and it sharpens their resolve. Buddys favorite player was not a defensive guy but one of the NFLs most unknown quarterbacks, Tyrod Taylor. Buddy was in the stands last year when Taylor rallied the Bills from 10 points down to beat Tennessee and fell in love with him.He would call him a warrior, Rex says. He was so excited about him.Rex had big plans for last year. In his introductory news conference in Buffalo, he told fans to get ready for the playoffs. By the end of the year, they wanted him to get ready to pack. The Bills 8-8 finish was worse than the year before (9-7) under Doug Marrone, and the thing that stung the most was that the defense plummeted from fourth in the league in yards allowed to 19th. Rex Ryan is supposed to be the master of defense.But players groused that Rexs scheme was too complicated. In hindsight, Rex wonders whether one of his biggest problems was that he didnt bring the messengers. When he went from Baltimore to the Jets, he brought along Bart Scott and Jim Leonhard, guys who could help their teammates buy in, or at least understand what he was trying to do. Buddy did the same thing in Arizona with Seth Joyner and Clyde Simmons, his guys from Philly.This year, Rob is one of the messengers. Its like having two Rexes, safety Aaron Williams says. Rob, whose title is assistant head coach, breaks down the technical details, while Rex spends more time on the big picture. The players listen to Rob. Rex says Rob is the best teacher on staff.But there are already problems. Midway through camp, second-round draft pick Reggie Ragland tore his ACL. Ragland, a linebacker from Alabama, is considered a true Ryan defensive player and would have figured heavily into the mix this season. When word hit that he was out for the year, Bills fans started groaning that the season was over ... in August.And then last week, defensive tackle Marcell Dareus was suspended for the first four games of the season for violating the leagues substance abuse policy. Dareus, a two-time Pro Bowler, signed a $100 million contract extension last year.So no, there will be no bold predictions for 2016. Rex knows that turned too many people off last year.That doesnt mean hes not saying it to us, Bills center Eric Wood says. I dont reveal what we say in team meetings, but Ill just say were just as confident as weve ever been as a football team. We still have lofty goals for our team.ITS A SATURDAY morning at training camp, and Rex and Rob are sitting on plastic lawn chairs in a pavilion overlooking the field, telling stories. One of them involves a cheerleader from their college days, and one of the twins throws out a hubba-da-hubba-da.In some ways, theyll never change.They have sons now who want to get into coaching, and Rex and Rob probably wont make them wait a long time, as Buddy did. Rob makes a comment about Steve Belichick, who was an entry-level coach for his dad for four years but is now coaching the safeties for the Patriots. Rob says hes sure Steve is a grinder, and Rex agrees.I think youre a role model for Belichicks kid, Rex says to Rob. His hair is actually longer than Robs, I think. I think I gave him s--- when I saw him. I go, That kid needs a haircut. I go, Dude, you look like my brother. But I bet you hes a hell of a coach. Because sometimes, your coachs kids gotta be better than the other guys.It is not the reunion the Ryans expected. Buddy isnt here. But the Ryan boys are together again, the family name is on the line, and that means theres going to be a fight.I expect them to put together maybe the best coaching performances of their careers, Hampton says. Its kind of one of those now-or-never situations. A lot of people, they crumble. But I think a lot of Buddys mettle -- a lot of Buddys fire will be summoned, and theyre going to have great years.Its going to be must-see TV. Elizabeth MerrillMerrill is a senior writer for ESPN. join the conversation follow @MerrillLiz follow @ESPN Basketball Shoes From China . Manuel was offered a position the day he was fired. He accepted earlier this week and the team made the announcement Friday. Clearance Basketball Shoes Store . -- Mike Smith never saw his first NHL goal go in. http://www.clearancebasketballshoes.com/ . Mitch Holmberg added a goal and three assists. Connor Chartier also scored for the Chiefs (3-0-0). 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The worlds fastest man stopped short of condemning Jamaican teammates Asafa Powell and Sherone Simpson or American rival Tyson Gay, whose failed doping tests have left the sport in turmoil ahead of the worlds in Moscow next month. "Definitely its going to set us back a little bit," Bolt said in London ahead of a Diamond League meet, his first competition in the city since his three gold medals at last years Olympics. "But as a person I cant focus on this. "I still have world championships, everyone is stepping up their game so I have to really focus on that. ... I am just trying to work hard, run fast and hopefully help people to forget what has happened, and just move on." Bolt will run the 100 metres on Friday and the 4x100 relay on Saturday at the Olympic Stadium in a meet marking the anniversary of the start of the 2012 London Olympics. In his first public comments since news of the high-profile doping cases broke, Bolt promised that he wont be the next sprint star to be embroiled in a scandal. "I was made to inspire people and to run, and I was given the gift and thats what I do," the six-time Olympic champion said. "I am confident in myself and my team, the people I work with. And I know I am clean. "So Im just going to continue running, using my talent and just trying to improve the sport." If the recent cases have cast doubt about Bolts own integrity, the 100- and 200-meter world record-holder asked any skeptics to just check his record. "If you were following me since 2002 you would know that I have been doing phenomenal things since I was 15," the 26-year-old Bolt said. "I was the youngest person to win the world juniors at 15. I ran the world junior (200) record 19.93 at (17) ... I have broken every record there is to break, in every event I have ever done. "For me, I have proven myself since I was 15. ... I have shown everything throughout the years since I was always going to be great." It was announced earlier this month that Powell aand Simpson tested positive for the stimulant oxilofrone at Jamaicas national championships in June.dddddddddddd Discus thrower Allison Randall and two other athletes also returned positives for banned substances at the same meet. "Im just sitting and waiting to see the results and whats what," Bolt said. "Theres a lot things that hasnt been said and done yet." Bolt said he has spoken only briefly via text message with Powell since the positive test was announced. "I didnt want to bombard him with questions," Bolt said. "I told him, Sorry to hear what was going on. And he said Yes, its kind of rough, its hard. "And I just told him to stay strong and stay focused, and hopefully everything will work out." Powell was the last man to hold the 100-meter world record before Bolt broke it in 2008. He also helped the Jamaicans to the 4x100-meter relay gold medal at the 2008 Beijing Olympics. In almost 20 minutes with reporters in London on Thursday, Bolt avoided any direct criticism of his fellow athletes. "In life things happen, people make mistakes, mishaps happen," Bolt said in response to a question about doping sanctions. Both Powell and Gay claim they failed doping tests because they trusted people they didnt know very well. Bolt does not doubt his inner circle and was astounded by the suggestion he could inadvertently be given a banned supplement and test positive. "What? I am clean," Bolt shot back while insisting he only takes vitamins and not supplements. "You have to be careful as an athlete what you do and what you ingest, the food you eat and stuff like that. "But I am not worried because ... I have a great team around me." Questions about the apparent leniency of two-year doping bans were sidestepped by Bolt. "I cant determine how harsh the rules should be," he said. Sprinter Kim Collins, who is also competing in the two-day London meet, accepts that every athlete is now under scrutiny, saying the wave of recent doping cases "leave a bad taste for all of us." "Everyone is judged and I will be judged running fast at my age," said the 37-year-old Collins, a former 100-meter world champion from St. Kitts and Nevis. ' ' '
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